Gender im-balance .. leading to third world war

I really had to struggle to realize how come this gender imbalance may lead to third world war ... Women are the best creation by God .They in many form make integral and inseparable part of our life , be it mother , sister , friend .. or better half .They the symbol of peace , love affection , care , responsibility ... How come we forget, we are in this world because of a woman .. n dats our mom ... we love ppl coz of cultivated love of hers in us .. we care coz we were cared by her ....

Its been long notion since older time that woman are the iconic symbol of silence sufferance .They were subjected to the mental deformation of being nothing without a man . Its mistaken by our society her role of wife as slave , because of that right from her birth to different stages she has to face humiliation in different form , tortures , and pains . It used to be curse to have a girl child and eventually this sex preference have led to gender imbalance , which is evident from our demographic data .

A very crude fact because of their absence , our society is getting soaked with voilence , indiscipline , moral dis integration , and even culture extinction .A man is nothing without a woman .A man by himself doesnt becomes a man . Its a woman's presence in his life who shapes his values , ethics , inculcates ingredients which is required for his success , and she is responsible for mannerism reform in his life . Her absence will lead to the absence of care , love , affection. he will become more violent , aggressive , arrogant .This will lead to clashes of ego .Never ending will to win this world be it at the cost of anything will bring to end ... and peace cannot be prevailed unless one knows about peace, love itself .No matter whatever a man cannot come up , to show the immense love , blessing and care at par with woman .Woman are soft because they know and understand the pain , and without her there will be always a permanent void in our society though how well we get technological and sceintific success.

There's always balance in nature .If it is night we have day , if there is lies, we have truth ... we cannot fight wid nature , Any tampering with it , we'll have to suffer .Eliminating woman from society would means erasing color , peace, harmony , which ultimately leads to destruction.Woman has always been the back bone of nation's success and prosperity... and more it is rightly said " Behind every successfull man there is a woman ... "...

so love them ... coz dey love u ...

story ENDS , wen u end ....

"Do u love me ... " , a much awaited question for manit , for which he had plans , plan to give a blood soaked love letter to her , n blood not of his , but purchased from nearby chicken shop , yeah a chicken had to b sacrificed to show how much he loved her .He knew how to woo dem & also it was de final assault to maximize the impact of his immense love for her & it worked ....

Everything waz movin on rite track , than a day wen he asked her de same question.. & dat so called cool guy broke into tears wen nxt day she showed him his name on her wrist .... She kissed , hugged , cried .. n said " never leave me manit ... b wid me till my last breath ..... "....
It went on ... happily , both were in love , talkin endlessly , living each n every moments, .... de guy waz in love , ...de gal waz in love ....

Its a srty abt manit a college goer & mannpreet a gal 4m jamshedpur , beautiful , fair infact all her beauty specification can be summoned in one word ... she waz a punjabi gal .... n de guy, bihari by origin but carrying mighty punjabi heart ... The stry beign somewhere in the first week of may 2007 wen he waz in town for his summer vacation ...He had some issues reagrding his tata indicom walky , so he decided to visit city's main hub , coz his problem could b seriously dealt n he'll have a good chance to b surrounded by those beautiful face employed ....
Sitting on sofa , waiting for hiz turn, he decided to scan de area & probably lookin someone he can polarise n add to his numbers .. started focusing on cute , fair , 5.3' , kajal-eyed...un-paralleled beauty ....

His excuses made him sit infront of her , as she waz asked to take my case .... lots of technical stuff started .. he began to wonder how can such a delicate fragile gal b given such responsibility dat included ear deafening queries ,all nuf to drive u nuts ... den de guy started off hiz stunts .. dat had soo many assorted poor jokes , cool atti , tryin to impress her wid words ...& at de end after all hiz technical issued were solve.... she greeted him wid smile ..... ..

But now de task waz 4 de guy ... again nxt day he went .. deliberatly detaching de parts of dat poor handset .. he went directly to her desk without doin ne formalities in account of emergency case .. after 1.5hrs .. she fixed .. this tym he won a bigger curve on her face for him ... agn nxt day .... n this continud till a week each day killin his walky , winning her heart & also gaining de attention of the other potential boyfrns working dere ... even including dat ugly gate keeper ...
At de end of sevent day , he left her a letter ... typed ( as de guy waz cursed wid poor n horrible handwriting ) ... an hr after he got a msg ...4m unkown no .. its contents were nuf for him to conclude ... " ohhhh!!!! now shez in ma pocket .... "so he finally won her ... dey started sailing together ..but de guy waz so preoccupied wid hiz projects dat he decided to put an hold on her ...

she got buzy wid her work , n he moved on .... But destiny had some other plans for dem ... nearly after 3 months ...he called .. she waz glad , but now dey were frns ..... every alternate day he made it a point to ring her .. n gradually he got addicted to it ...This tym changes were commin , left al hiz projects for her , jus 4 her solely , to hear her quietly .. wid tym passing he waz getting soaked into de feeling of love4 her ... n desperatly waiting for de nxt vacation - winter ....
God waz also rather kind to him ....though he waz blessed wid many wonderfull frns , but parallely to dat scene a person was alos makin passage in hiz lyf , de frndhsp grew so strong dat still claims, till de last sight ...like as usual some one had to take up his case , as he couldnt have had courage to show his move ... so promised vicky..... , her to him


Everything was planned .. each day , venue ( ccd ) , timing....
" i , love u manit ... "she holding hiz hand tightly on 14th of jan 2008 7:30 pm , his last day of his vacation .. yeah she proposed him .... n really dat waz de most happiest moment for him ... & began their love stry ... which had bit of phyco stuff of dat chiken's blood , n cutting ..... but it waz so strong n immense for dem dat nothing else he thought off .. Xcept her....
Ups n downs go hand in hand .. n now it waz turn for down .... whose scar hez still holding ......
their love stry became prey to the poor Indian mentality of ppl spreading rumours
... " we saw Mr. x daughter wid a guy on her scooty " , " shez havin affair wid guy outside our community "..it became de topic of discussion in clan , n sort of shits ... which led to emotional blackmail by her father of meaning it to hiz life if it iz not stopped ....

Some one had to take move ...n de guy ...So came de end of their cool stry , de guy sacrificed everything , all hiz dreams , his love , hiz feeling , day by day he battled wid their memories ...
he bear de most painful assualt .. of so called break up ... he was lost , lookin for her in their past lane ... collection down de tears ... keeping it withing him .... he did only for her...

N now 2 n half years after , hez still fighting wid time n de battle haz become more fierce , keeping her alive in him , .. he still miss her , he still miss her hold , her care , her love , her voice , her eyes .... warmth ... he still miss de way he looked in her eyes to say ... " HEY BUNNY ... I LOVE YOU YAAR ..... " ......


.... fall in love its a wonderful thing .....

Everything you want .. Do you get it .. ?

Yeah , this question has always been tossing in my mind , do we actually get , what we want .One could write an epics on such topics supported by infinite quotes like " labour never goes in vain " , " we reap wat we sow " and those .... so the moment conclusion could be we do actually get what we want .....

But way far back when i see , it makes me think its surely not true for me atleast .Though i cant over rule all those supporetd sayings , but there are some aspects of life where it doesnt get fits in.For that we need to hover round the key wod " LUCK " . I really dont know how many of you belive in it , but for me its simply a concept to explain things happening as per one's wish . Pick up any segment you do get assualt of ill fate , though may b minor, be it love life , frns , college , career wat eva ... .The more you plans , the more you think , u get less... God knows for whatso ever reasons you dont dont get bak much ... and then u begin to think ... you ask question to yourself , why it happened , why it happened wid me , why i faced break up , why i lost my frnd .. n etc . what went wrong .. and when you move on for answers , u start digging out .. u simply conclude ... Ohhh!!! i was unluky dis tym ... , my stars were not wid me .. The case becomes even more worse , when desperatly you try to get out of tha pool , you keep drawing deep into it ...

So the question come where to put in effort when inspite of your hard labour you remain clueless about regarding some facts , where to put in hard effort when your friend do not respond , where to put in your utmost effort wen you dont get bak your love ... in short where to put effort wen you simply dont get the things you need ....

Still its un-clear about being lucky or un-lucky . We are fortunate enough to make assessment regarding the flaws in our deeds , but what about those unfortunate innocent victims who looses their life for no damm reasons, accident , blast ,... etc ..
For us they are simply UN-LUCKY & those who have narrow escape they are LUCKY ...

This may never end , but for the moment conclusion its comes out to be Follow life , Play your part , Enjoy , Rectify past and move on , If you cant come out of your pool Change it , Time heals everything ... ...... & ALYZ B HAPPY ....